Curveball

You get thrown one when you least expect it...and these past few weeks have thrown us a handful...hence the lack of blogging.  Rather than diving into all the details, I'm going to remind myself (and you wonderful faithful readers!) what I have walked away with after all of this.

Little ones are the best gift anyone can be given.  No matter how trying some days may be, there is no greater gift in the world. 

Be thankful.  Not just on Thanksgiving, but everyday.  And even as crappy as a day may seem, you can always find at least one thing to be thankful for. 

Hug more. And often. And hard.

Don't doubt yourself.  You will do what's right and you will make things that may not be right at the time better. Stay positive.

Moms rock.  Having an awesome mom rocks and being a mom rocks a heck of a lot too.  I have what I consider to be the best one.  She is beyond fantastic and I strive everyday to be more like her.  I would love for my girls to look up to me like I do to mine.  (and just so we're clear Mom, no more of that funny business...xoxoxo)  

Keep laughing.  Have fun.  It is seriously the only thing that keeps you from going nuts.  Just like the hugs, do it, and do it a lot.

Not to get all 'churchy'...but just have to add this in because I truly believe they played a huge part in a lot of what has gone down as of late.  Prayers work. And if you don't necessarily pray, then send thoughts or whatever may work for you...but nevertheless, they do good.  For everyone involved. 

And I know I've said this numerous times before, but they play such an important role in my life, and I am beginning to see my girls forming their own and really appreciating them...friends. They are a key part of life.  Without them, days would be long, struggles would be harder, and life would just not be as fun.  Keep those friends close...I know it's hard, life gets busy, and people make excuses, but try harder.  Because when something happens and you need them, you are going to be so grateful that you do.  It's truly amazing how the love and support of a friend can help make bad days even a little bit better.   Thank you, friends...I know I could not have gone through all of this without you and I hope to be the same type of friend to those of you who are dealing with your own hard times and situations as well. 
To leave it in Bug's own words...'I love my friends!'  Well said, sister.  And I fully agree, because like her mama, she's got some great ones.